“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear—not absence of fear.” — Mark Twain
Grief often brings fear in many forms. The fear of facing each day without the one lost can be overwhelming. Many grieving parents experience moments when fear grips the heart tightly. Fear of forgetting, fear of breaking, fear of feeling numb forever can all weigh heavily. Courage does not demand the absence of this fear. Instead, courage calls for standing in the fear. Courage means acknowledging fear while continuing to move forward. Each small step taken through grief becomes an act of bravery.
Many people believe courage requires strength without doubt. The reality for grieving parents is different. True courage includes admitting vulnerability. Fear becomes part of the journey, not something to be erased. Grieving parents who embrace their fears gain a deeper sense of control. Resisting fear can mean seeking support when feeling weak. Mastery of fear grows slowly through each honest moment. Grief does not vanish, but courage grows alongside the pain.
Courage in grief also means honoring one’s limits. Pushing beyond emotional boundaries does not equal bravery. Sometimes courage is allowing oneself to rest or ask for help. Courage is choosing to feel grief fully, despite fear’s presence. Each act of self-compassion strengthens resilience. Grieving parents often inspire courage in others simply by enduring. The mastery of fear becomes a quiet, steady flame that guides the way.
Thought for today: Courage means feeling fear and still moving forward. Let today be a step toward mastering your grief.