February 25, 2026

Love’s Light in the Dark Garden

“Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.” — Oscar Wilde

Grieving parents often feel as if their hearts have become barren gardens. The loss of a child can seem like winter without end. Memories of laughter and warmth may feel distant and fragile. Many wonder if love can survive such deep sorrow. Holding love in the heart becomes a quiet act of courage. Love does not disappear with loss; it changes form. Love grows in the soil of grief, even when it feels lifeless. The heart remains a place where light can still enter.

A garden without sunlight cannot bloom, just as a life without love can feel empty. Grieving parents may struggle to see hope. Darkness sometimes obscures the simplest joys. Yet love persists, quietly nourishing the soul. Love may appear in a smile from a stranger. Love may shine in shared stories of a lost child. Love can be found in small moments of kindness. Those moments are the seeds that can bring life back to a weary heart. Grief shapes love but never fully extinguishes it.

Keeping love alive in the heart requires patience and grace. The seasons of grief do not follow a straight path. Some days may feel like endless night. Other days may catch glimpses of dawn. Grieving parents learn to recognize these changes. Love becomes both memory and presence. Love helps to hold what feels broken. The garden may seem sunless, but love is the light still reaching through.

Thought for today: Nurture the love in your heart. Even in grief’s darkest moments, love brings quiet light.


On August 16, 2017, my son, Anthony James Cristello, took his own life at the age of 35. That day, I joined a worldwide club no one ever asks to be part of.

Thank you for letting me share my experience, strength, and hope with you. I only ask this: believe that I believe—hope is possible.

Bob

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