“Year’s end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us.” — Hal Borland
Grief is a journey that never truly ends. The loss of a child changes time itself. Every day can feel like walking through fog, unsure of what lies ahead. The calendar marks years passing, but the heart measures moments of pain and healing. Each year brings a mix of sorrow and growth. The wisdom gained from living through loss does not erase the grief. That wisdom shapes how we carry our memories forward. Grieving parents learn to live with their loss, not beyond it.
Experience teaches that grief changes but does not disappear. The sharpest edges of pain soften, though the ache remains. The passing seasons remind us of ongoing life, even when we feel paused. Our memories become a thread weaving past and present. The knowledge gained helps us find strength in vulnerability. Many grieving parents discover resilience they never expected. That resilience does not mean forgetting or moving on quickly. It means continuing forward with love guiding each step.
Time does not heal in the way people often say. Healing is not a destination but a daily practice. Each day offers an opportunity to embrace both grief and hope. The wisdom of experience teaches patience with ourselves and others. Compassion grows when we acknowledge the complexity of sorrow. The journey forward includes tears, remembrance, and small moments of peace. A grieving heart learns to keep walking with courage.
Thought for today: Embrace the journey as it unfolds. Let wisdom from experience guide your steps gently onward.