The Helpers We See and Need

“Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” — Fred Rogers Grief can feel overwhelmingly isolating. When a child dies, a parent may feel lost in a sea of sorrow. The world seems indifferent to the depth of that pain. However, even in the darkest moments, helpers quietly appear. These helpers … Read more

Compassion’s Quiet Power

“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” — Dalai Lama Grief teaches a profound lesson about compassion. The loss of a child reshapes every part of a parent’s heart. Many grieving parents find themselves surrounded by silence or misunderstanding. The urge to protect others from … Read more

Questioning the Meaning

“Being religious means asking passionately the question of the meaning of our existence and being willing to receive answers, even if the answers hurt.” — Paul Tillich Grief brings urgent questions about why life feels so broken. Parents who lose a child often ask what purpose remains. Those questions do not come softly. They arrive … Read more

Common Life, Shared Healing

“The good we secure for ourselves is precarious and uncertain until it is secured for all of us and incorporated into our common life.” — Jane Addams Grief often feels like a solitary journey, a private pain too deep to share. The loss of a child isolates many parents in profound ways. Personal healing can … Read more

A Dream of New Possibility

“A dream is the bearer of a new possibility, the enlarged horizon, the great hope.” — Howard Thurman Grieving parents carry dreams that have been shattered. The future once imagined now feels impossible to reach. Each morning brings the weight of absence and unanswered questions. Dreams that included their child feel painfully out of reach. … Read more

Meeting in the Midst of Grief

“All real living is meeting.” — Martin Buber Grief can feel like a silent room where meeting others seems impossible. Many grieving parents feel isolated by loss. The absence of a child creates a space no one else can fill. Yet, the act of meeting—truly meeting another person—holds profound power. Meeting means presence. Meeting means … Read more

Quiet Heroism in Grief

“I am of certain convinced that the greatest heroes are those who do their duty in the daily grind of domestic affairs whilst the world whirls as a maddening dreidel.” — Florence Nightingale Grieving parents often face a world that feels chaotic and unkind. The daily tasks of living can become mountains too steep to … Read more

Unlocking Freedom Through Forgiveness

“Forgiveness is the key that unlocks the door of resentment and the handcuffs of hatred.” — Corrie Ten Boom Grief can hold heavy burdens of resentment and anger. Losing a child often leaves unanswered questions that fuel those emotions. The weight of blame can trap a grieving heart. Resentment may feel like a shield protecting … Read more

Reverence for Life

“Ethics is nothing other than Reverence for Life.” — Albert Schweitzer Grief deepens the understanding of life’s fragile beauty. Losing a child reveals how precious each breath truly is. Every moment holds weight when life feels so fragile. Grieving parents learn reverence through pain and love entwined. Respecting the life that once filled a room … Read more

Helping Others Know They Are Loved

“The greatest thing we can do is to help somebody know that they’re loved and capable of loving.” — Fred Rogers Grief often isolates a person, making them feel unworthy of love. Parents who lose a child can struggle with deep loneliness and self-doubt. The absence of a loved one shakes the foundation of belonging. … Read more