“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant.” — Robert Louis Stevenson
Grief makes every day feel like a struggle for survival. The loss of a child changes the rhythm of life completely. Many grieving parents wake with empty hands, unable to see immediate progress or peace. The weight of sorrow can blind anyone to hope. Yet, hope grows not from sudden change but from small efforts made each day. A kind word spoken to oneself plants a seed. A moment spent remembering a child with love also plants a seed. These small acts do not yield immediate comfort, but they prepare the heart for healing.
Every day carries the chance to plant something gentle. Caring for oneself in grief feels like an impossible task sometimes. Yet, self-care is a seed of hope, even in the darkest hours. Acts like breathing deeply, allowing tears, or reaching out for support nurture the soul. The quiet moments spent honoring grief quietly water those seeds. Parents who grieve often forget that healing is a process, not a deadline. The garden of healing grows slowly, patiently. Small seeds planted today will bloom in time.
Grief teaches patience and courage. The harvest cannot be rushed. Many grieving parents judge their progress harshly. Measuring a day by its struggles misses the quiet victories. Offering kindness to oneself plants resilience and strength. Each small act of love for oneself or others prepares the soil for growth. Seeds of hope are scattered daily, even when unseen. Trusting the process honors the love that remains.
Thought for today: Plant one small seed of kindness for yourself or others. Healing comes through patient, gentle care.