“The soul is like a wild animal—tough, resilient, savvy, self-sufficient and yet exceedingly shy.” — Parker Palmer
Grief changes how we move through the world. The loss of a child wounds the soul in ways few can understand. In the early days, many grieving parents feel stripped bare. The inner world feels shattered. Some parents try to carry on without acknowledging the brokenness inside. Others retreat completely. The soul, like a wounded animal, hides in the darkest corners. The shy soul does not respond to force or noise. The shy soul waits for safety before stepping into the light.
A grieving parent often discovers unexpected strength in the quiet. The resilience may not feel strong, but survival is strength. A parent who rises each day, even in sorrow, is already courageous. Healing cannot be demanded. The soul, bruised by loss, must be gently invited to return. Solitude may become sacred. Silence becomes a refuge. There is no shame in retreat. The wounded soul knows what it needs. Slowness honors the pain while holding space for something softer to grow.
With time, and without pressure, the soul may begin to show itself again. Gentle practices—walking, journaling, sitting in stillness—can offer safe ground. The grieving heart may not trust easily. The world no longer feels reliable. But even in grief, the soul remains intact beneath the pain. The shy soul is not broken. The shy soul is protecting something sacred. With kindness, the soul slowly remembers how to breathe again. No one can rush this return. But every quiet act of care helps.
Thought for today: Treat your grieving soul with gentleness. The soul will return when it feels safe enough to be seen.